Saturday, February 21, 2026

the crescent moon


Yesterday we met my brother and sister-in-law for an early dinner. It was a gorgeous but very windy, getting back to chilly day. We had been blessed with a couple spring teaser days with sunshine and temperatures in the 60s. But, it's still winter in Ohio and Ole Man Winter took back his duties and hit us with a doozy of a weather event. Thursday night Todd and I were watching the Olympics, waiting for Alyssa Liu's gold medal skating performance. The wind and rain had all at once become much stronger and both our phones went off with a horrendous beep. TORNADO WARNING. We flipped the TV to the local weather station with the adorable meteorologist being very serious telling the viewers to get to their tornado safe spot. The weather system passed in 15 minutes with no tornado touchdown.

Back to yesterday...after having dinner with my brother and sister-in-law (their names are Pat and Patty - isn't that fun?) we came home and the sun was starting its descent. I asked Todd if he wanted to take a walk, he said "Sure," so we took a quick sunset walk. 

We got home And there it was - the crescent moon.

Such a perfect moment: the color of the sky, the outlines of trees, the silver edge of that crescent hanging just above the sunset’s glow.

It was too light to see them in this photo but three planets, Venus, Mercury, and Saturn shone on the western horizon below the moon. 

Possible tornado one night, beautiful sunset with a crescent moon the next. Mother Nature keeps us on our toes.


Friday, February 20, 2026

the friday feed: tabbouleh

I met my friend Annette when our her middle child and my first born were in the same kindergarten class. Her family history tells quite a story. Her mom was a German Jew living in Munich during WWII.  Ruta and her family left Germany to find haven in Israel. Annette's Palestinian dad lived in Jerusalem, Ruta and Elias met, fell in love and married, had two children, and moved to the United States, where they had three more children, Annette being one of them.

Through my friendship with Annette, she introduced me to Levantine food: zeit and za'atar (an olive oil mixed with za'atar dipping sauce with pita bread, Lahma bi Ajeen (Arabic pizzas), dolmas (stuffed grape leaves) falafel, and tabbouleh. When she makes tabbouleh, she'll send a text message: "I just made way too much tabbouleh. Want some?" Of course!

A couple weeks ago Annette went to a golf tournament in Phoenix and stayed with her friend who lives there. Her friend loves to garden, has a couple lemon trees on the property, and sent a few lemons home with Annette. She called me when she got home. "I brought you something from Phoenix!" She came by the house and handed me two lemons. The little orbs of sunshine smelled so fresh and I knew right then and there what I was going to do with them. "Im going to make tabbouleh!" 

Tabbouleh is a Middle Eastern salad that originated in Lebanon. It's made primarily from finely chopped parsley, tomatoes, mint, and onion, with soaked bulgur wheat, all tossed in a dressing of olive oil and lemon juice. I had some mini cucumbers and added those, too. That lemon juice in the dressing tasted so fresh. It wasn't puckery tart. Tabbouleh is served as a side or appetizer, often scooped with lettuce or pita bread. I scooped mine with a spoon. Todd is not a big fan of tabbouleh. More for me...darn.







 

Thursday, February 19, 2026

how did that get there?


On a sunny, cold, snowy day I was looking out my kitchen window at the snow covered patio, at the birds gathering on the feeders, and at a couple of icicles clinging to the gutter. And then I saw it. One of the icicles held an unexpected passenger: a single dandelion seed. 

How did it get there? 

Months earlier it had been a bright yellow bloom in someone's backyard. No one noticed it and it turned into a delicate silver globe waiting for the wind or perhaps a child to blow its seeds into the air. How far had it drifted?

Snow began to fall as the seed was still aloft. It could have landed anywhere - on the bare bushes that lined the patio, on the snow piled on the grill, but instead it brushed against an icicle as the meltwater dripped and refroze.

And there it was. How it caught my eye, I'll never know. 

A summer memory caught on winter's ice.

The icicle has melted and the seed has disappeared. Maybe it will show up in my yard and a yellow bloom will stare back at me.

Wednesday, February 18, 2026

wednesday's words and wanderings and wonderings

The snow storm that dropped 15 inches (38 cm) of snow on January 25 has finally melted. While it blanketed the earth, some early spring flowers pushed through the dirt on their way to blooming into hyacinths in the next few weeks. Such a welcome sight! Spring countdown: 32 days.

A couple times a week I volunteer at Miami Valley Meals, a volunteer initiative that began during the pandemic and quickly evolved into a full-time operation serving thousands of meals per month. A team of chefs transforms recovered foods from various partner organizations into nutritious meals and then distributes the meals to groups that serve people facing food insecurity. Last week I put together 45 egg bake casseroles and just yesterday I chopped okra for two hours. This team of chefs is quite remarkable to put together the meals that they do. Each week unknown food arrives and they turn it into tasty meals to serve a community in need.

Last week my daughter-in-law sent some distressing news on the family text chain. Her mom was diagnosed with Stage 2 breast cancer. Monday afternoon Jennifer left to visit her mom, take her out to dinner, and spend the night at her parents' house. Mom's first chemotherapy treatment was Tuesday morning. I asked my son if he wanted me to come to Cleveland to help him with his little ones - the bath and bedtime routines are a little hectic with a soon-to-be 1-year old, a busy 3 1/2 year old, and just one parent. He said I didn't have to but if I wanted to, but...enough said. I would be there around the time he got home from work with a pot of beef stew. 

The morning routine of getting the littles ready for daycare wasn't quite as crazy as the nightime routine, except the power went out. We warmed the Hallie's bottle in a pan of warm water, put Owen's frozen muffin in a plastic bag and thawed it in another pan of warm water, thank heavens for flashlights to get the kids dressed. 

Before leaving, Andrew asked me to take a photo of him and his sweet kids to send to Jen's mom. They all wore pink to show support to Nana as she starts her chemo to beat this ugly cancer.




Monday, February 16, 2026

monday's mulling: morning fog

Yesterday the weather apps and the television weather people alerted the people of the Miami Valley that we would wake up to a dense fog. All the appropriate warnings that the pea soup visibility might slow down morning commutes to work were given. Today is also Presidents' Day, a federal holiday, and some businesses and schools will be closed in observance of the fete. The 7:15 school bus will return for its student pick up at the corner tomorrow morning.

I peeked out my window to look at the fog and then went outside to just stand in the mist. So peaceful, so quiet.

It’s like the world hit pause overnight.

Waking up and going outside to stand in a chilly, densely foggy morning makes everything feels softer. The light is diffused, the edges of buildings and trees blur into the mist, and sound seems wrapped in cotton. The familiar streets look mysterious.

Going outside in that moment woke me out of my Monday morning fog. The cool air woke me up better than that first cup of coffee. The usual noise from passing cars was muted. Peaceful, but not empty — more like the world quietly breathing.



My mind in the morning's peace and quiet took in the moment and went to Carl Sandburg's poem, "Fog," that captured a quiet and mysterious moment over a city and harbor. My quiet and mysterious moment was from my driveway.


Fog

The fog comes
on little cat feet.

It sits looking
over harbor and city
on silent haunches
and then moves on.

~ Carl Sandburg






Sunday, February 15, 2026

it's that kind of sunday

Besides the kindness connection, these two photos have another commonality: they're in two separate framing shops where both the businesses are located in historic buildings. 

These stickers were on two different vehicles, same parking lot. Looks like a couple car owners are on the same kindness wavelength. Isn't that bumper on the right fun? Just a bunch of horizontal stripes to brighten an old white van.

I pass this shop on my way to the yoga studio. It's located by the University of Dayton campus and this boutique provides a space for both emerging and established artists to showcase their works. UD's art building is just down the street from this frame store and the owners exhibit some of the students' artwork, too.


There are so many negative things that happen in this world and you can create positivity by showing some kindness.

 

Saturday, February 14, 2026

Friday, February 13, 2026

the friday feed: margaritas!

Last weekend we traveled to Chicago to celebrate our grandson's 2nd birthday. Here it is, the dead of winter, and we are are heading to the city where the winter temperature averages 18°F (-7.77C) in February. 

At my 50th high school reunion a group of us were talking and the topic of traveling in retirement came up. "Where do you go in the winter?" Many people said they go to Florida for the winter, Arizona had quite a few snowbirds, and then it was my turn. Cleveland and Chicago. The looks were priceless. Todd and I don't travel much in the winter. We still have our hardy souls and warm coats and boots. Cleveland and Chicago are where our grandchildren are and they are the ones who warm our hearts.

Back to AJ's birthday party. Of course I want to bring something but my daughters have the menu planned: chicken and beef tacos, elotes, my son-in-law's mom is bringing the beans, guacamole, and tortilla chips. Well...it sounds like you need some margaritas to go with all this goodness.

Many years ago, my brother found a delicious margarita recipe. It has the usual tequila and margarita mix, but the ¡Olé! factor comes with the addition of Cointreau, Grand Marnier, Triple Sec, and Drambuie. I filled my handy dandy traveling bottles with the margarita magic and the 20 adults at the party took care of every last drop.

¡Féliz cumpleaños, AJ!
 


Thursday, February 12, 2026

the colorful stairs...a story

The Front Street Warehouses are a hub for arts, culture, and small businesses, and feature over 150 artist studios, galleries, and boutiques in repurposed historic industrial buildings.

While strolling through one of the buildings at a the First Friday Art Hop, I came across these steps that lead to a friend's studio. How perfect for a building that houses artists. Anything can be a canvas. And anything can become a story.


The warehouse had no sign, no name on the rusted metal door—just a smear of cobalt blue paint where a handle should have been.


Inside, it smelled like turpentine and dust and something electric, like the air before a storm. Canvases leaned against brick walls three deep. Some were finished, others abandoned mid-thought—half a face, a single furious brushstroke, a sky with no ground beneath it.

And in the center of it all stood a staircase.

It didn’t match the rest of the warehouse. The steps weren’t wood or metal, but thick slabs of reclaimed planks painted in colors so vivid they seemed wet. Crimson. Teal. Mustard. Fuchsia. Each step a different shade, layered with drips, fingerprints, and the ghosts of old decisions.

Kate had built them during a winter when she couldn’t paint.

She had tried. She’d stretched canvas after canvas, stared at blank white until her eyes watered. Nothing came. The ideas that used to arrive like birds now hovered just out of reach.

So instead of painting pictures, she painted steps.

The first one she coated in a cheery mustard—the color of sunflowers, faces toward the sun. She scrawled across it in charcoal: BEGIN ANYWAY.

The next was dusky blue, calm and quiet, as it fades into the night. Then a bittersweet orange she mixed herself, the color of a Halloween pumpkin. She didn’t plan the order. She let instinct choose.

When the staircase was finished, it rose from the concrete floor to the warehouse’s second level—a rickety loft cluttered with old frames and forgotten sculptures. It wasn’t a grand staircase. It wobbled slightly if you climbed too fast. But it blazed against the warehouse’s gray like a rebellion.

One evening, long after sunset, Kate stood at the bottom of the steps with a paint-streaked rag in her hand.

She hadn’t created anything in months.

The warehouse felt like a witness to her silence.

She placed her foot on the mustard step.

BEGIN ANYWAY.

She climbed to the blue. Her heart thudded a little harder.

On the orange step, she remembered the first mural she ever painted, how her hands shook and how she’d painted anyway.

On the lime green step, she laughed out loud—suddenly aware of how seriously she’d been taking her fear.

By the time she reached the loft, something had shifted. Not inspiration exactly. Not a lightning bolt.

But a loosening.

She looked down at the staircase from above. The colors weren’t random after all. They were a record of motion. Of showing up. Of painting something—anything—when the mind felt empty.

She went back down.

Instead of facing the blank canvas, she carried one of the colorful planks to her easel. She set it upright and began to paint over it, not covering the old layers but working with them. The red bled through. The charcoal words smudged into shadow. The drips became rain in a cityscape she hadn’t known she was carrying inside her.

By morning, there was a finished piece leaning against the wall.

Not perfect. Not polished.

Alive.

The staircase remained in the center of the warehouse, paint-splattered and stubborn. Visitors who came later would run their fingers along the steps, asking if it was an installation.

Kate would shrug.

“It’s just how I get upstairs,” she’d say.

But sometimes, late at night, when the canvases went quiet and doubt crept back in, she would stand at the bottom of the colorful steps, look up at their reckless brightness, and remember:

Art didn’t have to arrive in a flash.

Sometimes it began with a single painted step.

BEGIN ANYWAY.






 

Wednesday, February 11, 2026

wednesday's words and wanderings and wonderings

Woodland Cemetery is Dayton's oldest and most historic cemetery. Many of the Who's Who of Dayton have their final resting place here. My yoga studio is just around the corner from Woodland and one day after class, I took a quiet, peaceful walk around the cemetery. The snow, the gray sky, the bare trees, the peace and quiet, the grave markers blanketed by the snow emphasized the reverence of the space and whenever my boots crunched on the ice, I felt as though I was disturbing the sacred rest. 

Whenever I go to Woodland, I always go to see the Wright Brothers gravesite. Orville and Wilbur are buried there along with their sister and their parents. The family plot is between the State of Ohio flag and Aviation History flag.

Another favorite grave marker is of Johnny Morehouse and his dog. Back in the 1800s, the Erie Canal ran through Dayton. The story is that 5-year old Johnny Morehouse was walking alongside the Canal, got too close, and fell in. His loyal dog jumped in but wasn't able to save Johnny's life. A local sculptor immortalized the pair depicting Johnny asleep with his dog protectively curled around him. People who visit his grave leave toys for both Johnny and the loyal dog.

We took off for Chicago to celebrate our grandson AJ's 2nd birthday. The big wind farm in Indiana goes for 20 miles and at the north end of the farm is where the time changes from Eastern Standard Time to Central Standard Time.



Birthday party time and a big Elmo Rice Krispie treat set the Sesame Street party theme.

All smiles with our two-year old little guy.

Q

Back home we woke up to hoarfrost on some branches and leaves. So pretty and delicate. As soon as the sun hit it, the hoarfrost melted.


After gray skies for a few days, this sunset was a welcome sight.

The grocery store is gearing up for Valentine's Day with strawberries and raspberries in heart-shaped containers. RIght now these fruits are not in season and even though they look pretty, their taste has little to be desired. Maybe a little Valentine's magic will make them sweeter for their recipients.


 

Monday, February 9, 2026

monday's mulling: bad bunny's super bowl performance


Last night over here in America we celebrated the culmination of American football by being glued to our televisions to watch the New England Patriots and Seattle Seahawks play in the final game of the 2025-2025 season, Super Bowl LX (that's 60 if you don't recall your Roman numerals).

My husband loves the game of football. He has his favorite teams and can watch games all day long. Me, I don't care for football. The Super Bowl is a big draw for fans whose teams are playing and it also brings us non-football fans to the TV to watch the commercials (companies shell out huge sums of money to advertise during this game) and to watch the halftime show.

This year's halftime entertainment was provided by the Puerto Rican rapper and singer, Bad Bunny. Bad Bunny? Yeah, I hadn't heard of him until the announcement came out that he would be doing the Super Bowl halftime show. The drama really snowballed when people found out that the performance would be in Spanish, a first for the Super Bowl. 

My first impression of this Spanish-speaking rapper's performance...I liked it. He highlighted Puerto Rican life and even though his words were all Spanish, the choreography told the story - the love of community, the love of family, working to overcome devastating circumstances (the electricity going out with no power for days), and the call for Americans to recognize and respect one another.

Near the end of his performance, Bad Bunny spoke his first and only English words of the show:

"God Bless America."

He then proceeded to name every Latin American country, one by one, in Spanish: Mexico, Puerto Rico, Colombia, Venezuela, the Dominican republic, Cuba, and more. He continued through Central and South America, before ending with USA, Canada, and finally Puerto Rico again. As he named each country, dancers carrying flags from across the Americas walked behind him, a visual representation of the hemisphere united. The jumbotron behind them lit up with the words, "THE ONLY THING MORE POWERFUL THAN HATE IS LOVE."

This post is a little late because this morning I watched this halftime show a few more times before writing about it. It tells the American story. The REAL one. The messy, beautiful, multilingual, multicolored courageous one. At the very end of the performance Bad Bunny held a football that read, "Together we are America," and spiked it into the ground. Not with anger but with joy and it made hate look exactly as small as it is.



 

Sunday, February 8, 2026

it's that kind of sunday

Paradox - two opposing elements that coexist, revealing complexity or deeper insights. It challenges conventional thinking, causing people to think more critically, to see the bigger picture, to broaden horizons, to see both sides of the story. It helps us to grow, to adapt.

Right now it feels like the world is wobbling on its axis. Everyday we are bombarded with news that makes us wonder, "Can this get any worse?" and it continues day after day. Tune out the news and tune into your heart. Share a little kindness. It could become the best part of someone's day, especially when they're not expecting it. So today I encourage you to lead by example and show someone that most people are good, that kindness isn't dead, and that we're all in this life together.



Saturday, February 7, 2026

it's birthday party time!

Today is the day for the family party to celebrate my little grandson AJ's 2nd birthday. Two years old and what a joy this little boy has brought to so many. 

For his 1st birthday, I made a zine to celebrate his first year. The tradition continues for his second year with a Sesame Street theme.

Dear AJ,
Woohoo!
You're TWO!
Happy, happy birthday,
I love you!

Love,
Didi 






 

Friday, February 6, 2026

the friday feed: perkatory

A big thank you to Catalyst, the creator of Oddball Observations and his Friday Funnies for inspiring this blogpost.

Perkatory...isn't this the truth? You smell the coffee brewing and can't wait for that first hot sip to start the day. 


Hot coffee and a c-c-c-cold winter morning. How cozy to be on the inside looking out at the new fallen snow.


Do you see that circle in the snow? There's a story to that. One afternoon my son called and asked if I would pick his dog up from doggy daycare. "Sure, no problem." It was 6:00-ish and he would pick his dog up from my house between 7 and 8:00 p.m. (19:00 and 20:00). 

"Would you mind making some scrambled eggs for Brutus for dinner?"

"I can do that."

It took a few minutes to make the eggs. They were hot, the dog was hungry, and the snow was cold. What to do: open the patio door, put the pan in the snow, the eggs cool in less than 30 seconds, and when they hit the bowl, B-Doggie snarfed them down in no time.

There are times when you need to use what's in front of you. It may not be the most conventional way but it sure gave a good solution.



Thursday, February 5, 2026

ikigai

I love learning new words, words that come from different cultures, ones that may not have an English counterpart, words that encompass a bigger feeling, an action, or emotion in a way that English doesn't. 

Ikigai is one of those words. It's a reminder that joy and purpose can live in the same space. It's poetic and inspiring.



Wednesday, February 4, 2026

wednesday's words and wanderings and wonderings

It's been a quiet week. Winter Storm Fern has hovered over the Miami Valley with its bitter cold temperatures. Yesterday the mercury rose to 32° and after all those below zero days, 32° felt like spring was knocking at the door. Snow still covers the ground but it is slowly evaporating and melting. Maybe after the melt, we'll see some crocus pushing out from the dirt.

On January 30 the moon, with Jupiter to its lower right, sit up the night sky. It looked like a full moon but it wasn't. The full moon appeared on February 1. Todd was driving home from Findlay, Ohio. a couple hours north of here, after visiting a friend and his sweet mom who had been hospitalized. As we chatted, all at once an "Ohmygosh, you should see the moon rising!" It was a beauty and it wasn't dark yet. I went to the end of the street, stood in the middle of the cross road and got mooned! The full moon for February is the Snow Moon. It sure lived up to its name this year.


I've kept busy this week making some zines for my grandsons. AJ's birthday party is this weekend so he's getting two - one with the original party theme and one with the updated party theme. I also made one for Owen (3 1/2 years old) thanking him for choosing a loofah of many pastel colors as my Christmas gift. He and his mom went to the Dollar Store for his Christmas shopping spree and he chose all of the gifts for his recipients. In case you're wondering what a zine (pronounced "zeen) is, it's a small handmade book made by folding a single sheet of paper. They're fun to make and fun to receive. The art of writing thank you notes seems to have lost its importance. I grew up writing them and will continue to do so. One of my sons-in-law once commented that he really enjoys receiving my notes and letters. Letter writing is becoming a lost art.







The other day Todd was perusing the Kroger grocery ads and he pointed out that chuck roast was on sale for a good price. (Isn't it time to go to the grocery store...hint, hint?) A pot of beef stew sounded tasty so off to Kroger to find that chunk of chuck roast plus a few vegetable to put in it. I tried a new recipe, one where the meat was browned in a large pot on the stove top, add the vegetables for a few minutes to warm them up, and then put the pot in a low heat (325°) oven for two hours. Wow. It was delicious and will be my go-to beef stew recipe from now on. It made enough for a few leftover meals, too.

The big scuttlebut from yesterday was that the groundhog saw his shadow so six more weeks of winter. Actually Groundhog Day is the midpoint to spring so today marks the downslope to spring. 

The birds are busy at the feeders. Such a joy to watch them. Every so often a big flock of grackles comes and takes over the feeders. The other birds sit patiently waiting in the wings for the grackle feeding frenzy to end. Every so often, Todd will open the door and clap his hands to scare them off but they're back in 30 seconds.