House Dust and Wanderlust
Thursday, January 15, 2026
just three months ago
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
wednesday's words and wanderings and wonderings
We went out for a bite to eat and ended up sitting at the bar to eat our meals. The wait for a table was 30 minutes but a couple bar seats opened up and we took them. Todd asked, "Since you're doing Dry January, do you mind sitting at the bar?" "No, not at all..." until the bartender served him this filled-to-the-brim glass of wine! Boy was it tempting. I stuck to my resolution.
We had an appointment with our attorney to see if our will and trust needed any updating. No updates needed but it was good to check in with a face-to-face visit. He was my son's high school soccer coach and we laughed at the passage of time from the time Andrew was in high school to now being a father of two. During the soccer years, our attorney and his wife became first time parents and now they are doing college visits with their son.
After the attorney's visit, we stopped at Bunny's Hasty Tasty for lunch, or breakfast if we wanted. Bunny's has been in that same spot since 1952 and it's a good ole diner. Breakfast is your typical eggs, bacon/sausage, pancakes, omelets, endless cups of coffee - no turkey bacon, no foo-foo coffee drinks, no yogurt parfaits, no avocado toast on the menu. Lunch is a hamburger of some sort and fries. It's basic good food served by waitresses who have been there a long time.
On a sunny day, we took a drive to the Dayton National Cemetery. The cemetery is keeping the wreaths on the grave markers until January 24 and I wanted to see them. Military cemeteries are so peaceful, and so beautiful in their precise placement of the gravestones. Such reverence to the men and women who are here at their final resting place.
On our way home from the cemetery, Todd took a different way home and went through parts of the city that I hadn't seen in ages. This is the Germantown hill and it's one of the highest points in the city. It gives a good view of downtown Dayton from a new perspective.
Yesterday morning, another beautiful sunrise. It was a lovely surprise to look up and see the waning crescent moon in the colorful sky. And that pink, orange, purple, yellow sky...just wow!
My yoga studio is close to Historic Woodland Cemetery, the final resting place of some of Dayton's most distinguished residents. After a slow, stretching class, I walked a couple blocks down the street to Woodland and hiked around the cemetery in the 45° weather. It was windy and the flags at the Wright Brothers' family plot flapped noisily in the the breeze. It was a peaceful walk. The only other people in the cemetery at that time were the workers buzzing around in their compact utility vehicles. Life always goes on - even in a cemetery.
Woodland Cemetery has the highest point in the city, Lookout Point, offering a bird's-eye view of Downtown Dayton. During the warm weather months, the leaf-covered trees partially block the city vista. Woodland is 185 years old. How this view has changed over the many years!
Tuesday, January 13, 2026
keep on dancing
This quote captures the spirit of resilience. It's about turning your missteps into movement, not letting them stop you. Instead of hiding the stumble, you own it, adapt to it, to make your story more meaningful.
In life we all stumble. We face setbacks, make mistakes, and experience rejection. We are not meant to stop when we stumble - we are meant to keep moving and let that stumble become part of our rhythm. It's about embracing imperfection, trusting the process, and believing that every detour has a destination.
In real life, we often think that we have failed when things don't go according to plan. Sometimes those imperfections are the ones that lead us to our most authentic self. Life doesn't require perfection. It requires movement and courage and the ability to make art out of chaos.
Monday, January 12, 2026
monday's mulling: desiderata
Last week's temps hovered around 50° (10°C) but have now returned to the numbers typical for January in Ohio, ranging from freezing on down. I'm washing a load of sheets, finally cleaning the bedding from the Christmas holiday when every bed in the house had people sleeping in them. While the sheets wash, I sit at my dining room table, watching the birds peck away at the seed in the bird feeders. The number of birds at the feeders makes me realize how many birds are out there looking for food. The ground is frozen, leaves and berries are off the bushes. More birds show up at the feeders in the winter than in the summer.
As I sit here watching this avian feasting moment, my friend sends a text. "Do you remember the Desiderata from back in the '70s?" Wow. That sure came out of nowhere but what a throwback. So on the heels of yesterday's advice from the Beatles post, I'm sharing this brilliant poem by Max Ehrmann. I was given a print of this for my high school graduation in 1975 (I wish I kept it) and it hung in my room at home and by the desk in my dorm room. It always calmed my heart when I was sad, lonely, or overwhelmed by college life.
It helped many of us during the turbulent 60’s and 70’s; maybe now is a good time to resurrect it!
"Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence...."
Sunday, January 11, 2026
advice from the beatles
Saturday, January 10, 2026
the first gardening catalog!
Friday, January 9, 2026
the friday feed: mocktail #1
Last weekend while hanging out with my girlfriend of a long, long time, all at once she said, "I want to do dry January. Will you do it with me...help keep me accountable?"
"Sure...why not? It'll be fun to have a challenge," and Dry January started on Saturday.
So far, six days into this, it's been easy. I love water. If I want something other than plain water, I'll brighten my water intake with flavored sparkling water.
Right now mocktails are a thing, especially since it's Dry January. And just for fun, I looked up some mocktail recipes. Many are fruit based. You make a syrup, typically with berries, add sparkling water, and freshly squeezed citrus juice. Garnish it with mint or a slice of citrus or some other ornamentation.
I've been cleaning out my refrigerator and from the family being here for the Christmas holiday I had a lot of leftover blueberries. My little grandsons love blueberries so I purchased a carton for their meals and then my daughter and daughter-in-law brought some from their homes. We had a lot of blueberries and when it was time for people to leave, the kids left them here. Todd and I can eat only so many blueberries, I hate to waste food, so time to make a mocktail. With blueberries.
The recipe called for making a syrup with blueberries, honey and water. Put a couple Tablespoons in a glass, fill it with ice, add some sparkling water and fresh squeezed lime juice. It was tasty, refreshing, I had to figure out the balance between the syrup and lime juice. The first taste was too tart so a touch more blueberry syrup fixed that.
Todd took a taste. He said it was good...but it would be better with vodka!
Today is my dad's birthday, he would have been 92, and to celebrate he would have made a martini. His martinis were gin and vermouth with three olives and a couple ice cubes, and he measured his 'tinis very precisely using a glass baby bottle.
"A man must defend his home, his wife, his children, and his martini."
~ Jackie Gleason
Dad liked Jackie Gleason, too.
Cheers, Dad.


















